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How Do I Decide Who Will Take Care of My Pet When I Die?

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January 15, 2026 •  Emily Hicks Law, PLLC
Choosing someone to care for your pet after you're gone is one of the most personal and emotionally important decisions in your estate planning process. Here’s a thoughtful guide to help you make that decision with confidence.

Choosing someone to care for your pet after you're gone is one of the most personal and emotionally important decisions in your estate planning process. Your dog, cat, bird, or other companion relies on you for their health, safety, and daily happiness — so selecting the right caregiver is essential to ensuring their life remains stable and loving.

Here’s a thoughtful guide to help you make that decision with confidence.


1. Start by Identifying Who Truly Loves Animals

You may have a long list of family and friends you trust, but not everyone is an “animal person.” The ideal caregiver should have:

  • A genuine love for animals
  • A history of responsible pet ownership
  • Patience and compassion
  • A stable lifestyle that allows for pet care

Sometimes the best caregiver is not a close family member but a trusted friend, neighbor, or even a professional connection who has a proven track record of caring for pets.


2. Evaluate Their Ability to Handle Your Pet’s Specific Needs

Not all pets are the same. A caregiver who is great with large dogs may not be the right match for a senior cat with medical issues.

Think about your pet’s unique characteristics:

  • Age – Will your caregiver be able to handle an aging pet or a very young one?
  • Size and activity level – Some pets require more exercise and space.
  • Medical needs – Chronic conditions may require extra responsibility and financial stability.
  • Behavioral quirks – Anxiety, aggression, or special training needs matter.

Choose someone who can realistically provide the right environment and attention level.


3. Have an Open and Honest Conversation

Before naming someone in your documents, talk to them. This conversation should include:

  • Whether they are willing and able to take on the responsibility
  • An overview of your pet’s needs and routine
  • Financial considerations (and whether you will leave funds)
  • Long-term expectations

It’s better to learn now if someone is not comfortable with the role than to surprise them after your passing.


4. Consider Naming an Alternate Caregiver

Life is unpredictable. Your first choice may move, become ill, or experience major life changes that prevent them from caring for your pet.

Naming one or two backup caregivers helps ensure your pet is never caught in an uncertain situation and avoids conflict among family members.


5. Formalize the Arrangement With Legal Documents

Verbal promises are not legally enforceable. To protect your pet, formalize your plan through your estate documents.

In Florida, you can:

Name a caregiver in your Will

This clarifies who should take possession of your pet. However, the Will must go through probate, which may cause delays before the caregiver receives the pet.

Create a Pet Trust (Florida Statute §736.0408)

A pet trust is a legally binding way to ensure:

  • Your chosen caregiver receives the pet
  • Funds are set aside specifically for your pet’s care
  • A trustee oversees how the funds are used
  • Your care instructions are legally enforceable

Pet trusts are especially helpful if your pet has medical needs, a long lifespan, or significant care expenses.


6. Think About the Financial Side of Pet Care

Pets can be expensive, and even willing caregivers may hesitate if they worry about the financial burden.

Consider leaving funds for:

  • Food and treats
  • Grooming
  • Routine vet care
  • Emergency medical costs
  • Medications
  • Boarding or pet-sitting

A pet trust allows you to set aside specific resources for your pet’s lifetime care and ensures the caregiver is supported.


7. Don’t Forget to Leave Detailed Care Instructions

Whoever you choose will benefit from a written guide that includes:

  • Feeding schedule and preferred brands
  • Daily routine and activity needs
  • Medical history and veterinary contacts
  • Grooming details
  • Behavioral notes and comfort items
  • End-of-life wishes

This helps the caregiver maintain continuity and reduces stress on your pet during the transition.


Conclusion: Choosing a Caregiver Is an Act of Love

Deciding who will care for your pet after you pass away is not something to put off. By selecting the right person, having an honest conversation, and putting legal protections in place, you ensure your beloved companion continues to receive the love, stability, and care they deserve.

Planning ahead offers peace of mind for you and a secure future for your pet. Ready to put a plan in place? Give us a call.

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