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“Grandma, It’s Me”: How AI Voice & Video Scams Are Targeting Older Adults — and How to Stay Safe

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February 13, 2026 •  Emily Hicks Law, PLLC
Criminals now use artificial intelligence to clone voices and create realistic videos using only small amounts of publicly available audio or images — often pulled from social media. By staying informed and prepared, families can protect not only their finances, but their peace of mind and long-term security.

A frantic phone call comes in late at night.

“Mom, I’m in trouble. I need money right now.”

The voice sounds exactly like your child or grandchild. The caller may even know personal details. Sometimes there’s a video call showing a familiar face in distress. But it isn’t your loved one.

It’s an AI-powered scam — and it’s growing rapidly, especially targeting older adults.


🎭 What Are AI Impersonation Scams?

Criminals now use artificial intelligence to clone voices and create realistic videos using only small amounts of publicly available audio or images — often pulled from social media. These scams are sometimes called:

  • “Grandparent scams”
  • Voice cloning scams
  • Deepfake video scams
  • Emergency impersonation scams

The goal is always the same: create urgency and fear so victims act before verifying. Common scenarios include claims that a loved one:

  • Has been arrested
  • Was in a car accident
  • Is stranded while traveling
  • Needs bail money immediately
  • Needs funds for medical treatment
  • Cannot speak freely due to “legal restrictions”

Scammers often instruct victims to send money via wire transfer, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or payment apps — methods that are difficult to trace or reverse.


🤖 Why AI Makes These Scams So Convincing

In the past, scam calls were easier to spot. Today, AI technology can:

✔️ Mimic tone, speech patterns, and emotional inflection
✔️ Produce realistic background noise
✔️ Generate convincing video “deepfakes”
✔️ Personalize scripts using online information
✔️ Respond in real time during conversations

Even cautious, tech-savvy individuals can be fooled — especially when emotions are running high.


👵 Why Older Adults Are Often Targeted

Scammers deliberately target seniors because they may:

  • Be more likely to answer unknown calls
  • Feel a strong desire to help family immediately
  • Have retirement savings available
  • Be less familiar with AI technology
  • Live alone, increasing vulnerability during high-pressure situations

But anyone can fall victim. These criminals are sophisticated and persistent.


🚩 Red Flags to Watch For

Encourage your loved ones to pause if they hear:

  • Urgent requests for money “right now”
  • Instructions to keep the situation secret
  • Claims that traditional payment methods won’t work
  • Requests for gift cards, crypto, or wire transfers
  • Caller ID showing a familiar name but unusual behavior
  • Refusal to let you speak to anyone else

If something feels off, it probably is.


🛡️ Simple Ways to Protect Your Family

1. Create a Family “Safe Word”

Establish a private code word or phrase that only close family members know. In an emergency, a legitimate caller should be able to provide it.

This single step can stop many scams instantly.

2. Hang Up and Call Back Using a Known Number

Never rely on the incoming call. Instead, hang up and call your loved one directly using a saved contact number.

3. Slow Down — Scammers Hate Delays

Fraudsters rely on panic. Taking even a few minutes to verify can break the scam.

4. Limit Personal Information Online

Public posts showing birthdays, travel plans, schools, and family relationships make impersonation easier. Review privacy settings regularly.

5. Talk About It Openly

Many victims feel embarrassed and stay silent. Regular conversations normalize caution and empower seniors to question suspicious requests.


⚖️ Why This Matters for Estate Planning

Financial exploitation is one of the biggest threats to older adults’ independence and long-term security. A single successful scam can:

  • Drain retirement accounts
  • Disrupt carefully structured estate plans
  • Create financial dependence
  • Force liquidation of assets
  • Increase vulnerability to future scams

In severe cases, victims may even face guardianship proceedings if funds needed for care disappear. Proactive planning can help safeguard against this risk.


🧩 Estate Planning Tools That Offer Protection

A well-designed estate plan can include safeguards such as:

  • A trusted durable power of attorney to monitor finances
  • Revocable living trusts with oversight mechanisms
  • Professional fiduciaries when appropriate
  • Clear financial management structures
  • Advance planning for incapacity

Equally important is choosing the right people — individuals who are both trustworthy and attentive.


❤️ The Most Powerful Protection: Connection

Isolation increases vulnerability. Regular contact from family members, neighbors, faith communities, and caregivers dramatically reduces the risk of fraud. Simple check-ins can make all the difference.


Final Thought: Verify First, Act Second

If you receive a distressing call or video from a loved one asking for money:

Pause. Verify. Protect.

No legitimate emergency requires secrecy and immediate payment through unusual methods. Technology may be evolving — but so can our awareness. By staying informed and prepared, families can protect not only their finances, but their peace of mind and long-term security.

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